Most of the girls my age are single and have no kids or single mothers!
Getting a decent date with a decent guy in Nairobi especially is a myth.
An average guys ideal date is in a bar and trust me I have dated quiet a few guys and the first place they think of is to dash into a bar for drinks, some would suggest a coffee joint but never a restaurant and they are many restaurants in Nairobi.
The last date I went on was a blind date, somewhere on Koinage street and the place played loud music ,i found him drinking coffee and as soon as I showed up he switched to a drink, I was also expecting dinner but the guy orders chicken wings and was very specific about no chips. I was tempted to ask for an expensive drink so that I could get over and done with the date but being classy I decided I would ask to leave after the conversation turned sexual. I'm then asked how much alcohol I can take to get high and I say four bottles, which is an absolute lie, I never get drunk in public so I take a brand that has very little alcoholic content and watch a man stressing about my sobriety
Yes I live by myself and no my house isn't a whore den, I have refused to take guys back home since in the past guys were so eager to come and 'cook for me' I don't buy that line anymore and I'm very specific if you want to walk me to my door.... when I turn around and open my door, its goodbye and goodnight.
Can you loan me some money, oh how many time have I heard that line! Its really tiresome for guys to boldly ask me for money and expect some later! the classic one is the business deals, can I use your house for a business meeting or I would like one of your rooms to keep my stuff because I don't have storage. No you don't pay my rent so please go hire a place and store your wares or conduct business meetings.
The classic one is the guy who wants to borrow your car for errands or going out since he doesn't have a car! or he's car is on stand still from that drunken crush, I just shake my head and move on.
So if you don't have the above qualities, give me a ring and lets start a conversation and no I am not interested in married men.
Miss Di
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