Wednesday 25 September 2013

NOT FAKING ORGASMS ANYMORE

Mum please don't read this! just warning you in advance.....







There is a meeting in my bedroom and I intend to have a good meeting, everyone is going to come out of this meeting satisfied, very happy and probably tired.

The longer you pretend to be happy and comfortable in a sexual situation and you’re not, the more it builds resentment between you and your partner. Then you wait, and six months or a year later, they find out you were faking it and they’re thinking, well why didn’t you say something before? You’re really doing yourselves a disservice. It’s really important to guide your partner in the right direction because orgasms are such an integral part of having a healthy relationship. If your partner is the only one reaching an orgasm, then the whole experience is going to be less intense for both parties.

Most men are clueless about how to please a woman especially on the first night , yes he is wandering just like you how to go about it, from when he kisses you to when he starts to undress you.
Honestly speaking my first time is my favorite moment because I know exactly what I want. I pull the stops on the first encounter, I prefer my bed because I know the sheets are clean, I select the music, sexy slow music with sensual instrumentals though I prefer dance hall music so that I can whine and twerk.the massage oils and candles, set the mood right!

Honest conversation about some of the things that you like is Key. It doesn’t have to be a heavy conversation about how they don’t do this or they don’t do that, but it’s really important to guide your partner in the right direction because orgasms are such an integral part of having a healthy relationship. If your partner is the only one reaching an orgasm, then the whole experience is going to be less intense for both parties.

 A woman has an opportunity to introduce toys and do the things she needs to do to make sure that that [orgasms] start to happen. She can introduce certain toys or other things that might help her reach an orgasm. Over time a couple will start to feel more comfortable together, rather than her feeling like her job is just to lie there and service his needs.

Men learn how to use your tongue, women have learnt the art so its only fair you return the favor. Your hands aren't for gripping, use those fingers get them wet and please don't wipe of the wet fingers on the sheets after a woman comes, use the towel. Please note that if a woman gets dry or the condom is dry, its time to get out and get the woman wet again because you are clearly doing the wrong thing and her screaming doesn't necessarily mean she likes it, check her vagina for wetness and when we women are happy our nipples are hard.

I enjoy sex more now that im not afraid to tell the guy how to lick my nipples, kiss certain parts of my body, rub my vagina and lick it. if the guy is too engrossed with he's own satisfaction whip out the toys and please yourself.

Don't fake it, sex it!

Miss Di

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