Sometimes the stress of being in a relationship is tasking for me.
I have a friend whom I meet for a nice chat, dinner and drinks.
He comes over to my place and we have sex. We have a mutual attraction and we are platonic friends .
Emotions are not part of the deal but the situation becomes rather complicated the day after, we thank each other for a wonderful night and we constantly chat with each other and he says the nicest things but after two days we are over the rush until the next encounter.
The question is, are we as humans capable of having relationships without any emotional attachments?
What works for me... I guess is that I am honest with myself and I have no expectations from this guy, I know that I am not in a relationship with him and I don't intend to be in one with him. Sounds heartless but the truth is, I set ground rules with my head heart and emotions, no attachment and so far so good.
I normally have an internal joke when im on a date and most guys ask, so what do you do when you have the urge? They probably don't want to listen to that internal joke or they would bail. BUZZZ
Miss Di
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