Its a dilemma when your ex asks you back. Most people tend to keep going back to their exes for some crazy reason, I would definitely give myself some time back with my ex because I need to know that my emotions have long moved on and I wasn't the person I was when we were dating. I learnt that some relationships cant go back to the magic when it goes away. It may be the absolute bad reason to try getting back because most of the time we miss the familiarity. You may find yourself in need of a temporary fix for your mutual loneliness but believe me, the trust, loyalty and love you once had left an empty hole too deafening to fill in.
When you take someone back, the person is most likely to take advantage of you since you are more venerable emotional and sometimes financially. Forgiveness is a wonderful virtue but if you expect the other person to behave when you get back, you will be disappointed gravely.
When you break up with someone, its the best time to do some soul searching, sometimes its worth it to take risks on someone new rather than going back to the same drama over and over again
Im writing this as am looking at an ex and its really ridiculous because I am im reflecting on all the reasons why we broke up and I have only one memory of happy moments..... when I used to wake up and watch him sleep. I knew where he was, he was angelic with eyes closed and mouth shut but the only bummer was that I didn't know what he was dreaming about.
Story is, don't bother going back, unless you want to see what progress you've made otherwise its not worth your time.
Keeping it 100%
Miss Di
