HOW TO HAVE AN AFFAIR

What drives a confident, smart and good looking single woman to seek married men in order to have a relationship? If you have the answer well let me know.

Isat with my girls a couple of nights ago and I chuckled at the dilemma one of my friends was going through. Should she date that married man who was pestering her? she looked shocked when I said to go ahead but be clear of the consequences. I wont lie about not having not dated a married man! I have and Im glad that I have the wisdom to guide a confused friend.

Psychological or not, the affair happens for a reason:
 He's bored and needs someone to play with, lets face it young girl, everybody wants to have some excitement in their lives. a married man is like a forbidden fruit, so it gives one the thrill to break into society's rules and constraints about morality. The nasty things he tells you to do for him, the nasty places he takes you for a quickie, the things he has you doing.... believe me sweetheart, he wouldn't dare ask he's wife to do, your just that girl that does the nasty for him, test driving the painful stuff he cant do with he's wife and those nasty word he has you saying.... without getting paid even a whore wouldn't do some things.  Speaking of never being paid, Are you a pro bono whore? If you are going to have an affair with a married man, he better be paying you for the moments, your sneaking and creeping because you are not an unemployed whore. I pity especially those women who have their carriers going on, have their own house, car and have their way, then you meet this man who adopts your house to come and have an hour or two with you before he rushes to he's family and doesn't even bother to bring milk or juice to your house. Girl! he better be paying for a mortgage for your home, shopping sprees to Milan and those two hour holidays to the coast and back!  Shoot, he is doing all that for he's wife and nothing for you. You are getting played!

 

Women are always looking for that guy who is like Daddy, more women believe that a married man has more experience and is financially stable than single guys. Some women equate that experience to give emotional support. If your dad is still alive.... darling develop a relationship with him and stop chasing some older man for emotional support, that vulnerability will destroy you, if you go poking in the wrong older wrinkles.

 

Naiveté and control is something a cheating married man knows how to play, before he started pursuing you, were the first girl he has tried to reach out too in he's many quests while married ....ehh yes? Darling pick a number and join the queue. Once you fall for the bait, become boring, or nag like he's wife then he is on to Lucy, Karen and Maria. yes he had options and you didn't because he was jealous, constantly checking on you and made sure no man came close to he's little play thing!

 

Now here Is what I told my friend, If he really wants to be with you, he loves you, he cant leave with you. Ask him to do this huge favor for you. Leave he's wife, family and come start a new life with you, where you wont spend your nights cold and alone, where you wont have to spend a few hours of sexual satisfaction with him, instead you would have a lifetime of sexual moments,...... when you walk in public, you can hold hands , walk with your  head up high and not be ashamed of what you are doing, you could take him to your mother, introduce your dad to he's son in law but most importantly he can seat in the front pew in church with you and when you close your eyes and pray.... God looks down at you and listens to his prayerful wife!

Miss Di.